10 edvidences your man may be disloyal to you

the signs he might be cheating on you

the signs he might be cheating on you

If you’ve been having doubts about your man’s behaviour recently, take a look at these clues so you can see if he might be playing away…

1. He starts cutting his toenails at odd times

If his personal hygiene/grooming improves overnight, chances are it is not you he is trying to impress. He stops rolling out of bed and pulling on last night’s clothes and starts shaving, showering and dressing nicely. If he insists on showering before coming to bed, worry.

2. He takes a sudden interest in fashion

One day he thinks Prada is an East European car, the next he knows his Blahniks from his Choos. A trendy haircut and a whole new wardrobe can be signs that he is going after a younger – or just new – woman.

3. He dresses up to go out with the lads…

…or to the gym, or the office on a Saturday, whereas he used to throw on whatever clothes were nearby. He starts wearing a particular outfit or item of clothing at particular times. It often turns out to be a present from his mistress or one of her favourites. His new-found interest in his appearance doesn’t extend itself to going out with you.

4. He is vague about where he’s been and with whom

He is always out with ‘the boys’, ‘people from work’ or ‘the usual crowd’. They always end up in some late-night bar/pub/club in the East/West End and he can never remember the name of it. Detailed excuses are difficult to manage.

5. He is secretive with his mobile and/or email

He always seems to be closing down windows on his PC whenever you enter the room. His mobile suddenly requires a PIN and he gets his bills de-itemised. If you discover that he has a second phone, beware. If it were from work, surely he would have mentioned it?

6. He is restless and distant in your company

His mind seems to be elsewhere and his body language and/or behaviour tell you he’d like the rest of him to be with it. He rarely wants to go out and do things with you, but he is bored and restless at home.

7. He resists intimacy and affection

When you reach for his hand he withdraws it at the first opportunity. The odd cuddle becomes the very odd cuddle, usually initiated by you. He doesn’t want to talk, let alone touch, and it seems ages since you had a decent conversation about anything.

8. His libido takes a hike

His guilt can wreak havoc with your sex life. He puts his lack of interest in sex down to being too tired, stressed, overworked, depressed, whatever. And no, he doesn’t want to talk about it. When you do try to make love it is distant and perfunctory or unsuccessful.

9. His old hand learns new tricks

It is disturbing when your partner of several years suddenly touches you in a different way or practises a new sexual technique. You have to ask yourself where he learnt to do it.

10. He is defensive about everything

If you remark that he has been working late a lot, he launches into a lengthy diatribe on how hard he works and how little you appreciate it. If you ask where he went out, he wants to know why you are so

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